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101 Things You Should Know Before You Divorce
Knowledge is protection.
Divorce is one of life's biggest decisions. Before you take any steps, arm yourself with the comprehensive knowledge you need. This guide covers everything from hidden financial impacts to emotional preparation — 101 critical insights that could save you from costly mistakes.
By JR Epps
Runic Publishing, LLC
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🛡️ Prepare Before You Act
The decisions you make during divorce can affect you for decades. Make sure you know what you're getting into first.
What's Inside: 6 Critical Areas
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Financial Realities
Hidden costs, asset division, debt responsibility, and protecting your financial future.
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Legal Foundations
Key legal concepts, paperwork requirements, and what the process actually looks like.
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Children & Custody
Custody arrangements, co-parenting strategies, and protecting your children's wellbeing.
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Emotional Preparation
Managing grief, building support systems, and maintaining mental health through the process.
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Practical Planning
Housing, insurance, career impacts, and rebuilding your independent life.
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Mistakes to Avoid
Common pitfalls, red flags, and lessons learned from thousands of divorces.
A Preview of What You'll Learn
Sample Topics from the 101
- Why "staying for the kids" often backfires
- The real cost of divorce (beyond attorney fees)
- Credit score impacts you didn't expect
- Documents you need to gather NOW
- How social media can hurt your case
- The "discovery" process explained
- Retirement accounts and hidden gotchas
- When mediation works (and when it doesn't)
- Tax implications of different settlement types
- Health insurance after divorce
- Protecting yourself from financial sabotage
- The emotional stages you'll go through
- Building your post-divorce support team
- Red flags your attorney might miss
...plus 87 more essential insights inside the book
Is This Book For You?
✓ Perfect For You If...
- You're considering divorce but haven't started the process
- You want to understand what you're getting into first
- You want to protect yourself financially and legally
- You have children and want to minimize their impact
- You want to avoid common expensive mistakes
- You prefer to be prepared rather than reactive
✗ Not For You If...
- You've already filed and are deep in the process
- You're looking for specific legal advice (see an attorney)
- Your situation involves immediate danger (seek help now)
📚 Ready to Take Action? Get the Companion Book
Once you've prepared with the 101 Things, our "How to File for Divorce Using AI" guide shows you exactly how to navigate the process efficiently and save thousands.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is this book biased toward getting divorced? +
Not at all. This book helps you make an informed decision. Many readers use this to either prepare for divorce OR decide to work on their marriage with full awareness of what divorce would entail.
Does this cover my specific state's laws? +
The book covers general principles that apply broadly, while noting where state laws commonly differ. For state-specific guidance, always consult with a local attorney.
How is this different from the Divorce Using AI book? +
This book is about PREPARATION — understanding what divorce involves before you decide. The "Divorce Using AI" book is about EXECUTION — how to actually navigate the process efficiently once you've decided.
I'm emotionally overwhelmed. Will this help? +
Yes. One section is dedicated to emotional preparation. Many readers find that having clear, factual information actually reduces anxiety by replacing fear of the unknown with understanding.
About the Author
JR Epps
Author & AI Accessibility Advocate
JR Epps believes in empowering people with knowledge during life's most challenging moments. The AI For Everyday Life book series was created to help regular people make informed decisions and navigate major life transitions with confidence.
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